First Look……..

I loved to roam in nature,
I love to see His all creature,
The mountain, the birds, the falls,
the lush green fields, the every adventure,
One day, I passed by a rushing stream,
I looked a fantasy like my dream,
She was enjoying the flowing water,
Her face was a beaming like crème,
I thought we are made for each other,
but i realized, no, i was mad for her,
she was my destination, my dream,
I was waiting for her like a traitor,
Soon I got to know , she was just a fantasy,
In reality nothing was happened like my imaginary courtesy,
I was mad to see her first sight, but she was not moved,
She left me and went away to quench her ever thirsty fantasy….

What is Love?

The question is: what is love?

"[Love is] Indescribable. [Al]though love flows from deep within your heart, you don't know where it comes from or where it's going. It's formless. You can't hold onto it nor can you get rid of it. Even the most beautiful of poetry only depicts the elementary of love, but not the true meaning of it. If you can grasp hold of it, then it's no longer love. Don't you get it? You'll understand the true significance of love only after you've lost it. When you go up against the whole world out of fear of losing it, when you realize that without love your world has no meaning, when she runs into the arms of another man, and you want to turn the world into a living hell in your rage, then from the ashes of agony will you experience the meaning of love."
-A Chinese Ghost Story, 2003

My thoughts: "Finally, someone have found the perfect words.
In less than a paragraph but more than a quote, someone have found love's definition."

When I saw this lesson/lecture/conversation, I was deeply moved. We, as part of being a living human, had all wished for love at one point in time. While some were lucky to have found love and kept it safe, others were not so lucky. They found love only to have lost it all over again, and then they believed that love is cruel. Yet, they don't understand that it is simply their experienced pain that will determined true love. I know that a person's first love will always be the most painful, the deepest, and the most unforgettable experience, but there will come a time when it will all be worth it. A person's first love does not necessarily have to be a person's last love. Yes, the first one will always hurt the most, but the last one will heal that wound and make it a 100x better. A person's first love may or may not be forever, but do keep in mind that as long as a person have found their last love, then forever that love shall last. Thus, never lose hope in love. Love is an unknown force; it can strike you anytime it want. So if you ever feel like you will never be able to find love, then stop and let love find you instead. It might take a while but it will be worth the wait in the end, correct? :)

You've touched my life so deeply

I sit here, staring at this blank page
Not knowing how to talk to you.
My head is screaming but my heart is silent.
You don't know the power you have over me.
You've touched my life so deeply.

How could we have been so ignorant... 
Not to realize how much we mean to each other?
We told each other what we see in each other
What we've been looking for so long.
But you still don't know how much you mean.
You've touched my life so deeply.
How did you let me go on believing
That you don't love me back?
So you tell me you love me, and now
You want me to meet your Husband?

How could you do this to me?
You've touched my life so deeply.

I know now that when you say "hello"
What you really mean is "I love you"
And after loving you for so long, 
Knowing that you love me means so much, 
But you love somebody else.  
Touch him as you've touched me.

R A I N D R O P S…

I look up at the sky
The rain plunging to my face
It feels like tears are captivating over me
As I wonder where you are

It wasn't long ago
That we stood here
Watching the raindrops plunge to our faces
While each drop gently fell over us
You would be smiling and laughing
I remember your love
Your joy for life
So full of energy and strength


Now that's all been swept away
As you left me motionless
Without a good-bye
This used to be our special place
When the angels would come out
Just to hear us play
The forceful energy of ecstasy that we always brought
Is no longer within you or, me I assume
Now I'm standing out here in isolation
Thinking about you

What we once had
All alone in the middle of the rain
I can't help but think
If you were still here
What would our lives be like
Rain and Traffic
The rain has suddenly stopped
Without an explanation
All the birds have come out
To chirp a graceful song
It's so peaceful
As the wind blows
Through my hair
I feel so helpless
That I have to look beyond
And look upon
At everything we once had

Now this long lost love
Has gone away
To a special place
For, I no longer belong there
With her…

Love and Friendship…

Love is like the wild rose-briar,
Friendship like the holly-tree
The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms
But which will bloom most constantly?

The wild-rose briar is sweet in the spring,
Its summer blossoms scent the air;

Yet wait till winter comes again
And who will call the wild-briar fair?

Then scorn the silly rose-wreath now
And deck thee with the holly's sheen,
That when December blights thy brow
He may still leave thy garland green.

To A Husband

This is to the crown and blessing of my life,
The much loved husband of a happy wife;
To him whose constant passion found the art
To win a stubborn and ungrateful heart,
And to the world by tenderest proof discovers
They err, who say that husbands can't be lovers.
With such return of passion, as is due,

Daphnis I love, Daphnis my thoughts pursue;
Daphnis, my hopes and joys are bounded all in you.
Even I, for Daphnis' and my promise' sake,
What I in woman censure, undertake.
But this from love, not vanity proceeds;
You know who writes, and I who 'tis that reads.
Judge not my passion by my want of skill:
Many love well, though they express it ill;
And I your censure could with pleasure bear,
Would you but soon return, and speak it here.

To A Husband
Anne Finch

To My Wife…

I can write no stately proem
As a prelude to my lay;
From a poet to a poem
I would dare to say.
For if of these fallen petals
One to you seem fair,
Love will waft it till it settles
On your hair.

And when wind and winter harden
All the loveless land,
It will whisper of the garden,
You will understand.
And there is nothing left to do
But to kiss once again, and part,
Nay, there is nothing we should rue,
I have my beauty,-you your Art,
Nay, do not start,
One world was not enough for two
Like me and you.

Poetry By Oscar Wilde

Tears, Idle Tears…

Tears, idle tears, I know not what they mean,
Tears from the depth of some divine despair
Rise in the heart, and gather to the eyes,
In looking on the happy Autumn-fields,
And thinking of the days that are no more.

Fresh as the first beam glittering on a sail,
That brings our friends up from the underworld,
Sad as the last which reddens over one
That sinks with all we love below the verge;
So sad, so fresh, the days that are no more.

Ah, sad and strange as in dark summer dawns
The earliest pipe of half-awakened birds
To dying ears, when unto dying eyes
The casement slowly grows a glimmering square;
So sad, so strange, the days that are no more.

Dear as remembered kisses after death,
And sweet as those by hopeless fancy feigned
On lips that are for others; deep as love,
Deep as first love, and wild with all regret;
O Death in Life, the days that are no more!

A Poem by Alfred, Lord Tennyson ( 1809–1892)

Forget Not Yet

Forget not yet the tried intent
Of such a truth as I have meant
My great travail so gladly spent
Forget not yet.

Forget not yet when first began
The weary life ye knew, since when
The suit, the service, none tell can,
Forget not yet.

Forget not yet the great assays,
The cruel wrongs, the scornful ways,

The painful patience in denays
Forget not yet.

Forget not yet, forget not this,
How long ago hath been, and is,
The mind that never means amiss;
Forget not yet.

Forget not yet thine own approved,
The which so long hath thee so loved,
Whose steadfast faith yet never moved,
Forget not this.

Forever and Always…

When I'm with you,
eternity is a step away,
My love continues to grow
with each passing day.
This treasure of love,
I cherish within my soul,
How much I love you...
you'll never really know.
You bring a joy to my heart
I've never felt before,
With each touch of your hand
I love you more and more.
Whenever we say good-bye,
whenever we part,
Know I hold you dearly
deep inside my heart.
So these seven words
I pray you hold true,
"Forever And Always
I Will Love You"

You Are My Sunshine…

You Are My Sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away
The other night, dear,
As I lay sleeping
I dreamed I held you in my arms.
When I awoke, dear,
I was mistaken
And I hung my head and cried…

Finding Love…

I wanted a mansion once... that is until I met you,
Now the only place I want to live is inside your heart
I once desired diamonds... until I met you,
Now the only sparkle I need comes from within
I used to crave the finest clothing... until I met you,
Now I want not a single thread to separate our bodies
I once coveted a fancy car... until I met you,
Now I want nothing that would put miles between us
I once prayed for money... until I met you,
Now I want none of the things money can buy
I once yearned for a sense of security... until I met you,
Now my only security comes is knowing you are near
I once dreamt of a prestigious job... until I met you,
Now I find my success in knowing that you are happy
I once asked for the world on a silver platter... until I met you,
Now you are my world and I want for nothing but your touch
Loving you has been my teacher; you taught me not to want
Being with you has been my discovery; you are all that I need
Finding you has been my salvation, I now understand grateful
But perhaps most importantly ...
Your love in return has been my everything….

Tips for Making a Stubborn Man Fall in Love

Stubborn?  There is no stubborn man who can resist a determined lady. If your man is stubborn, then you better give him a one-two punch that will sweep him off his feet.
1.      > Stomach is still their weak point. If you are looking at learning the gourmet menu, you are mistaken. You do not need to learn that, you can just drop by at certain days with a pizza in hand just to “hang out” with him. However, if the day is reserved for “the boys”, do not stick your nose and stay. At times, you can also drop a nice bag of his favorite chips by his office.
2.       >Personalize his gifts. Gifts are rarely a direct way to his heart, but it is often a long way towards it. If he has a collection, you can try to check some collection items for him. If he is into sports, you can secure two front row tickets but give him an option who he wants to go with.
3.       >Know his friends. This comes with a little warning; do not get too friendly with his friends. Just knowing his friends is enough but hanging out often with them might give you a problem. Leave a good impression with his friends because they are the “advisers”.
4.       >Let him teach you. Most men are eager teachers; they like to share what they are great at. Even if it seems as simple as a changing the light bulb or as complex as building a computer, it would be great to let them “teach” you.
5.       >Learn timing. Timing is everything, that is not only applicable to comedy but in almost every single affair. If it is a bad time, do not push.
6.     >  Understand what ticks him off. Knowing this means lessening the time, you would accidentally push the wrong button.
7.       >Do not make yourself too available. Sometimes when a person is too available, they are taken for granted. This would cause their efforts to be unnoticed. Stubborn guys tend to look the other way while you are trying to make them look your way. So give him time to realize your presence.
8.      > Love yourself. Dignity is a stubborn guy’s pride; if you do not have dignity for yourself they are not likely to fall for you.

The Best Way to Tell if a Boy is Really in Love With You, or He’s Just Saying it Because You Did

Isn’t love strange sometimes? It’s hard to tell up from down or hot from cold when it comes to love
and men. It seems like we try so hard sometimes to make our men happy, but then we end up getting
disappointed right? There are men out there ladies that are quite grand too, it’s finding them that is
the hard part. Figuring out whether a boy is really into us is one of the most difficult, agonizing, and
stressful times when being in, or starting a relationship. Some men can be so distant and shy, but
others can be suffocating. How do you tell if a boy really loves you, or if he’s just saying the three
little words because you are?
In my opinion, a woman just knows when she found a man that actually adores her. Where did you
meet this fellow? How did you meet this fellow? If you met in a night club and he offered you drinks
the whole night my guess is that he is out to have a good time. If you met through a mutual friend
who was having a relaxed dinner party that night, and you got to talk and laugh and get to know
each other, as well as exchange phone numbers, that is a different story. Either way, if the man you
are interested in is also crazy about you, he will make it known one way or another. He will call you
and invite you on another date, or he will have something very nice planned for you just to be able to
see you smile. If he is still interested in you, he will find a way to stay in contact with you over the
next couple of weeks, if not plan to see you several times. Now is when you may know whether or
not your relationship will get deeper and more serious.
You can tell in a man’s voice whether he is happy to be talking to you on the phone, and you can tell
by a man’s facial expressions when you are face to face. If he sounds excited, happy, and can’t wait
to see you, or even says “love you” before saying goodbye, that’s a pre love term meaning he most
likely will say “ I Love You” very soon. When you are face to face and he is looking at you straight
in the eyes when you are talking to him, that means that he is interested in what you are saying and
that he cares. When men can’t even keep eye contact or tend to change the subject to football that is
a red flag.
If you’ve been with the same man for several months and you have both been saying the “L” word,
how do you feel when he says it to you? Do you feel like it’s repetitive? He’s always said it in the
morning, on the phone, and at bedtime, so that’s when he’s used to saying it? Or does he come out of
nowhere and just tell you how beautiful you are, and how much he loves you? Does your man like
to help you with things, such as, dishes, cleaning, making the bed, etc. ? Will he go out of his way to
make you happy? Or does he do what he wants to do and expect you to go along with it as long as
he says “ I love You?”
There’s so much to say on this subject that it is hard to fit it all in one article. Listen to your heart
and your mind. Always take advice from others, and most important, love yourself.

JLS : Everybody In Love With Lyrics

Everybody in love, go on put your hands up
Everybody in love, go on put your hands up
Everybody in love, go on put your hands up
If you’re in love, put your hands up hand up

You know you need someone
When the need’s so strong
When they’re gone you don’t know how to go on
So the whole world is stuck in a moment
Standing still until they come back

You accept that they’ve, got things to do
But sometimes in the end there’s nothing left for you
If hurt is missing your baby
I’ve done too much of it lately

Cuz' every minutes like an hour
Every hours like a day
Every day lasts forever
But what else am i gonna do
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up
I can’t eat, I can’t sleep
what else could it be missing so deep
long as I’m where you’re going to
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up for you

And even when we mad, and say we’re through
Deep inside you feel the same way i do
Might as well turn around and just end this
Cause it’s harder tryin' to stay mad
I could tell you that you can’t stay here
Knowing just as soon as you disappear
That I’ll be missing you baby
Soon as you get up and you walk away

Every minutes like an hour
Every hours like a day
Every day lasts forever
But what else am i gonna do
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up
I can’t eat, I can’t sleep
what else could it be missing you so deep
long as I’m where you’re going to
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up for you

Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
If you’re in love
Put your hands up
Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
Everybody in love
Go put your hands up
If your in love
Put your hands up

Every minutes like an hour
Every hours like a day
Every day lasts forever
But what else am i gonna do
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up
I can’t eat, I can’t sleep
what else could it be missing you so deep
long as I’m where you’re going to
I’d wait forever and a day for you
I wait up, wait up for you! 


Each one of us desires that we put on the “new person” and begin to walk the new way of showing our love towards them. Basically, there are no certain established ways for the guys to show to their girlfriend how much love would mean to them. Yes, there are a lot of books, movies, newspaper articles, talks and speeches regarding this matter but still, it didn’t totally solve and suggest such a thing for the mere fact that once we are to show something, it can not be imitated from somebody but rather goes back to our own self. Showing our love is too subjective and personal and for that reason, I couldn’t cite any of those sources I stated above but rather from a very reliable source of all – my own personal experience on this matter.

We all have our own share of difficulties. As we go up the ladder of growth it becomes bigger. Our initial reaction is to back out from them, to waver, to quit because most of us guys are not that open when it comes into showing and expressing our emotions or feelings towards ladies. So, what would then be my ways? There is only one way I could suggest but it would involve a lot of things that goes with it. It’s just so simple… BE WITH HER ALWAYS.

These are just four letter words or phrase but then, it involves a lot of things. Man, as a person, never reveals himself in isolation but always in his togetherness with others. The indubitable fact is that human existence is always an existence of relationships.

Being with her always involves your willingness to listen to her at all times may it be of sense or no sense at all. Your willingness to listen clearly speaks and shows that you care for her at all and that you are with her. When one starts to listen, his or her attention is focus on you and that the one who speaks becomes the center of the others attention too. In such a way, both of them could acquire what we call a sense of a good communication at all. When both of them have this kind of setting, both of them would then sense the importance that they both have and has to share.

Being with her always involves acceptance. One can not be one with the beloved if there is no acceptance of and from each other. When one accepts, that means he or she has nothing to hide anymore from the other. Through acceptance one has no control or does not hesitates to tell whatever he or she had been doing since there is already the presence of self-esteem being develop. When both of them learn to accept each other, they also learn to be closer with each other and that they build more self confidence in them.

Being with her always allows the two of them to discover new things and experiences that they both could share in their togetherness. When the started to discover things among themselves may it be good or bad, they also started to show each other how much their love really means for each other.

I believe, that with their togetherness would clearly explains and add their knowledge on resolving conflicts they met along the way and that would strengthen more of that what we call love they wanted to share and live forever.


In one of my classes, I remember raising this same question to my first year college students as to who has the tendency of falling in love first, would it be women or men. And as what I have expected, women would say it’s the men and vice versa. Well, sometimes it’s easier for us to pinpoint the opposite in order for us to hide the reality among ourselves. What does it mean when we say, “falling in love”?
Before answering the question, I would like first to give my definition of “falling in love” so as to have my bases on my answer for our main question being raised upon. Falling in love is not an act of our will but rather it is a discipline I could say that controls the experience of falling in love but it cannot create the experience itself. What I mean is, we can choose how to respond to the experience of falling in love, but we cannot choose the experience itself.
In answering the question, I would like first to know my audience, my listener or my reader. Nowadays, for many young people love has become synonymous with sex. To love another means to be passionately attracted to her and to bring her to bed with me. This equation of love with sex has led to the idea that friendship is not love, that when two lovers break up, they may settle down for friendship as if friendship were inferior to love. Having this kind of thought, I could then say that men fall in love faster than women.
I would like to define falling in love in another way. Falling in love is to be attracted to the good qualities of the other. Sometimes this is earned to the extreme of attributing attractive qualities to the other even if they are not there. Falling in love here has come to be equated with admiration. Having this kind and line of thinking, women tend to fall in love faster than men. Would these disgrace women of being as such? Absolutely not, in fact these would simply mean that women are much more matured on looking at things especially with the matters of the heart.
Many of the women of today still have the tendency to equate love with romance. The words falling in love rings a sweet melody to the ears, brings to the imagination of the image of two lovers whispering sweet nothings to each other in the park or on the telephone, unmindful of the rest of the world as if only they matter and exist at all. I don’t know where I get this though I am sure it’s from a book that the author there also points out what makes women falls in love faster is the importance on being loved rather than on loving itself. Another thing is the emphasis on the object loved rather than on the faculty of loving. And lastly, the confusion between the initial state of falling in love and the permanent standing in love. This makes the difference because mostly men look at it differently than women when it comes to issues like this, women are more emotionally inclined than men.