I Miss You

Missing you tonight
I want to see your face again
Just once more before I go to sleep

Last night was the best night of my life
You held me tight all night
You gently kissed me until I felt right

We held hands all through the night
I never wanted to leave your warm embrace
I don’t think I’ve ever felt this way

I love you so much
I can’t believe we’ve made it this far
Together forever is what I wish for

Each night before I go to sleep
I thank God for sending you to me
I feel so blessed to have you as a boyfriend

As I lay my head on your shoulder
You wrap your arms around me
You whisper to me …”I’m going to miss you”

Just a couple more days…
I say to myself as I hang up the phone
I go to sleep just wishing you were there by me.

- By Unknown

Dreams of You

When I rest my head,
I look to the stars above,
Remembering all you said,
Hoping for feelings of love.

My vivid visions of your face,
Keep me awake at night,
Imagine your sweet embrace,
My lusting heart, you ignite.

Fleeting dreams of us,
Fade into the void,
As I start to obsess,
My memories destroyed.

My waking is bittersweet,
For I wake alone,
My life is incomplete,
And our future is unknown.

One day we will unite,
Make my dreams come true,
To be with you tonight,
For I'm nothing, without you.

By - C Fowler

True Love

Look in my heart
go deep inside,
You never know what 
treasures i may hide.
It hides a treasure 
I thought i had lost, 
But for you it is shown.
Shown like a picture
clear and large,
To keep this treasure
all I do is look at you 
and it will charge.
Charge as a battery
over and over again,
And only to you
will i explain.
It is beautiful 
like a waterfall 
or the heavens above.
If you don't know 
the treasure which
I give you?
It is called the 
one and only 
True Love.

By Peter  Rodrigues

Also See: The Tale Of Love

                Flame In My Heart

Daddy's Arms

Oh, my little girl
such pure joy you bring
Tiny hands on my breast,
a rosebud mouth feeding

Created from the purest 
love of my heart.
A gift from God,
given me,
I proudly present you
to your daddy.

The man of my life,
long awaited
Such pride in his girls,
he holds us both
as i feed you.

I feel his tears 
on my skin 
as he shares his joy of you.
I sigh....
and relax into him,
held gently in his arms.

My life... complete
God gave me daddy
And daddy gave me you.

I Love You Jenna.....

-MOM

By - Ella  Kay

Also See: What's a Mother Worth? 

                 True Romance  

Somewhere Or Other

Somewhere or other there must surely be

    The face not seen, the voice not heard,

The heart that not yet—never yet—ah me!

    Made answer to my word.

Somewhere or other, may be near or far;

    Past land and sea, clean out of sight;

Beyond the wandering moon, beyond the star

    That tracks her night by night.

Somewhere or other, may be far or near;

    With just a wall, a hedge, between;

With just the last leaves of the dying year

    Fallen on a turf grown green. 

Also See: Value Of Your Love

                True Romance

What's a Mother Worth?

I humbly appraise my mother's worth,
It began with pain to give me birth,
Which triggered off a love so strong,
Blossoming into a life-long bond.

When needed, she was always there,
Someone I realised would always care.
And the older I got the more I knew,
A mother's love sincere and true.

Now as I watch Mum age in years,
I'm happy to help and ease her fears.
Privileged now to play my part,
As she did for me from the very start.

Also See: Tips for Making a Stubborn Man Fall in Love
                The Best Way to Tell if a Boy is Really in Love With You

What is Love?

The question is: what is love?

"[Love is] Indescribable. [Al]though love flows from deep within your heart, you don't know where it comes from or where it's going. It's formless. You can't hold onto it nor can you get rid of it. Even the most beautiful of poetry only depicts the elementary of love, but not the true meaning of it. If you can grasp hold of it, then it's no longer love. Don't you get it? You'll understand the true significance of love only after you've lost it. When you go up against the whole world out of fear of losing it, when you realize that without love your world has no meaning, when she runs into the arms of another man, and you want to turn the world into a living hell in your rage, then from the ashes of agony will you experience the meaning of love."
-A Chinese Ghost Story, 2003

My thoughts: "Finally, someone have found the perfect words.
In less than a paragraph but more than a quote, someone have found love's definition."

When I saw this lesson/lecture/conversation, I was deeply moved. We, as part of being a living human, had all wished for love at one point in time. While some were lucky to have found love and kept it safe, others were not so lucky. They found love only to have lost it all over again, and then they believed that love is cruel. Yet, they don't understand that it is simply their experienced pain that will determined true love. I know that a person's first love will always be the most painful, the deepest, and the most unforgettable experience, but there will come a time when it will all be worth it. A person's first love does not necessarily have to be a person's last love. Yes, the first one will always hurt the most, but the last one will heal that wound and make it a 100x better. A person's first love may or may not be forever, but do keep in mind that as long as a person have found their last love, then forever that love shall last. Thus, never lose hope in love. Love is an unknown force; it can strike you anytime it want. So if you ever feel like you will never be able to find love, then stop and let love find you instead. It might take a while but it will be worth the wait in the end, correct? :)

To A Husband

This is to the crown and blessing of my life,
The much loved husband of a happy wife;
To him whose constant passion found the art
To win a stubborn and ungrateful heart,
And to the world by tenderest proof discovers
They err, who say that husbands can't be lovers.
With such return of passion, as is due,

Daphnis I love, Daphnis my thoughts pursue;
Daphnis, my hopes and joys are bounded all in you.
Even I, for Daphnis' and my promise' sake,
What I in woman censure, undertake.
But this from love, not vanity proceeds;
You know who writes, and I who 'tis that reads.
Judge not my passion by my want of skill:
Many love well, though they express it ill;
And I your censure could with pleasure bear,
Would you but soon return, and speak it here.
To A Husband
Anne Finch

To My Wife…

I can write no stately proem
As a prelude to my lay;
From a poet to a poem
I would dare to say.
For if of these fallen petals
One to you seem fair,
Love will waft it till it settles
On your hair.

And when wind and winter harden
All the loveless land,
It will whisper of the garden,
You will understand.
And there is nothing left to do
But to kiss once again, and part,
Nay, there is nothing we should rue,
I have my beauty,-you your Art,
Nay, do not start,
One world was not enough for two
Like me and you.

Poetry By Oscar Wilde

Tips for Making a Stubborn Man Fall in Love

Stubborn?  There is no stubborn man who can resist a determined lady. If your man is stubborn, then you better give him a one-two punch that will sweep him off his feet.

1.      > Stomach is still their weak point. If you are looking at learning the gourmet menu, you are mistaken. You do not need to learn that, you can just drop by at certain days with a pizza in hand just to “hang out” with him. However, if the day is reserved for “the boys”, do not stick your nose and stay. At times, you can also drop a nice bag of his favorite chips by his office.

2.       >Personalize his gifts. Gifts are rarely a direct way to his heart, but it is often a long way towards it. If he has a collection, you can try to check some collection items for him. If he is into sports, you can secure two front row tickets but give him an option who he wants to go with.

3.       >Know his friends. This comes with a little warning; do not get too friendly with his friends. Just knowing his friends is enough but hanging out often with them might give you a problem. Leave a good impression with his friends because they are the “advisers”.

4.       >Let him teach you. Most men are eager teachers; they like to share what they are great at. Even if it seems as simple as a changing the light bulb or as complex as building a computer, it would be great to let them “teach” you.

5.       >Learn timing. Timing is everything, that is not only applicable to comedy but in almost every single affair. If it is a bad time, do not push.

6.     >  Understand what ticks him off. Knowing this means lessening the time, you would accidentally push the wrong button.

7.       >Do not make yourself too available. Sometimes when a person is too available, they are taken for granted. This would cause their efforts to be unnoticed. Stubborn guys tend to look the other way while you are trying to make them look your way. So give him time to realize your presence.

8.      > Love yourself. Dignity is a stubborn guy’s pride; if you do not have dignity for yourself they are not likely to fall for you.

The Best Way to Tell if a Boy is Really in Love With You, or He’s Just Saying it Because You Did

Isn’t love strange sometimes? It’s hard to tell up from down or hot from cold when it comes to love
and men. It seems like we try so hard sometimes to make our men happy, but then we end up getting
disappointed right? There are men out there ladies that are quite grand too, it’s finding them that is
the hard part. Figuring out whether a boy is really into us is one of the most difficult, agonizing, and
stressful times when being in, or starting a relationship. Some men can be so distant and shy, but
others can be suffocating. How do you tell if a boy really loves you, or if he’s just saying the three
little words because you are?
In my opinion, a woman just knows when she found a man that actually adores her. Where did you
meet this fellow? How did you meet this fellow? If you met in a night club and he offered you drinks
the whole night my guess is that he is out to have a good time. If you met through a mutual friend
who was having a relaxed dinner party that night, and you got to talk and laugh and get to know
each other, as well as exchange phone numbers, that is a different story. Either way, if the man you
are interested in is also crazy about you, he will make it known one way or another. He will call you
and invite you on another date, or he will have something very nice planned for you just to be able to
see you smile. If he is still interested in you, he will find a way to stay in contact with you over the
next couple of weeks, if not plan to see you several times. Now is when you may know whether or
not your relationship will get deeper and more serious.
You can tell in a man’s voice whether he is happy to be talking to you on the phone, and you can tell
by a man’s facial expressions when you are face to face. If he sounds excited, happy, and can’t wait
to see you, or even says “love you” before saying goodbye, that’s a pre love term meaning he most
likely will say “ I Love You” very soon. When you are face to face and he is looking at you straight
in the eyes when you are talking to him, that means that he is interested in what you are saying and
that he cares. When men can’t even keep eye contact or tend to change the subject to football that is
a red flag.
If you’ve been with the same man for several months and you have both been saying the “L” word,
how do you feel when he says it to you? Do you feel like it’s repetitive? He’s always said it in the
morning, on the phone, and at bedtime, so that’s when he’s used to saying it? Or does he come out of
nowhere and just tell you how beautiful you are, and how much he loves you? Does your man like
to help you with things, such as, dishes, cleaning, making the bed, etc. ? Will he go out of his way to
make you happy? Or does he do what he wants to do and expect you to go along with it as long as
he says “ I love You?”
There’s so much to say on this subject that it is hard to fit it all in one article. Listen to your heart
and your mind. Always take advice from others, and most important, love yourself.

WAYS TO SHOW YOUR GIRLFRIEND HOW MUCH HER LOVE MEANS TO YOU

Each one of us desires that we put on the “new person” and begin to walk the new way of showing our love towards them. Basically, there are no certain established ways for the guys to show to their girlfriend how much love would mean to them. Yes, there are a lot of books, movies, newspaper articles, talks and speeches regarding this matter but still, it didn’t totally solve and suggest such a thing for the mere fact that once we are to show something, it can not be imitated from somebody but rather goes back to our own self. Showing our love is too subjective and personal and for that reason, I couldn’t cite any of those sources I stated above but rather from a very reliable source of all – my own personal experience on this matter.

We all have our own share of difficulties. As we go up the ladder of growth it becomes bigger. Our initial reaction is to back out from them, to waver, to quit because most of us guys are not that open when it comes into showing and expressing our emotions or feelings towards ladies. So, what would then be my ways? There is only one way I could suggest but it would involve a lot of things that goes with it. It’s just so simple… BE WITH HER ALWAYS.

These are just four letter words or phrase but then, it involves a lot of things. Man, as a person, never reveals himself in isolation but always in his togetherness with others. The indubitable fact is that human existence is always an existence of relationships.

Being with her always involves your willingness to listen to her at all times may it be of sense or no sense at all. Your willingness to listen clearly speaks and shows that you care for her at all and that you are with her. When one starts to listen, his or her attention is focus on you and that the one who speaks becomes the center of the others attention too. In such a way, both of them could acquire what we call a sense of a good communication at all. When both of them have this kind of setting, both of them would then sense the importance that they both have and has to share.

Being with her always involves acceptance. One can not be one with the beloved if there is no acceptance of and from each other. When one accepts, that means he or she has nothing to hide anymore from the other. Through acceptance one has no control or does not hesitates to tell whatever he or she had been doing since there is already the presence of self-esteem being develop. When both of them learn to accept each other, they also learn to be closer with each other and that they build more self confidence in them.

Being with her always allows the two of them to discover new things and experiences that they both could share in their togetherness. When the started to discover things among themselves may it be good or bad, they also started to show each other how much their love really means for each other.

I believe, that with their togetherness would clearly explains and add their knowledge on resolving conflicts they met along the way and that would strengthen more of that what we call love they wanted to share and live forever.

FALLING IN LOVE: DO WOMEN FALL IN LOVE FASTER THAN MEN?

In one of my classes, I remember raising this same question to my first year college students as to who has the tendency of falling in love first, would it be women or men. And as what I have expected, women would say it’s the men and vice versa. Well, sometimes it’s easier for us to pinpoint the opposite in order for us to hide the reality among ourselves. What does it mean when we say, “falling in love”?

Before answering the question, I would like first to give my definition of “falling in love” so as to have my bases on my answer for our main question being raised upon. Falling in love is not an act of our will but rather it is a discipline I could say that controls the experience of falling in love but it cannot create the experience itself. What I mean is, we can choose how to respond to the experience of falling in love, but we cannot choose the experience itself.

In answering the question, I would like first to know my audience, my listener or my reader. Nowadays, for many young people love has become synonymous with sex. To love another means to be passionately attracted to her and to bring her to bed with me. This equation of love with sex has led to the idea that friendship is not love, that when two lovers break up, they may settle down for friendship as if friendship were inferior to love. Having this kind of thought, I could then say that men fall in love faster than women.

I would like to define falling in love in another way. Falling in love is to be attracted to the good qualities of the other. Sometimes this is earned to the extreme of attributing attractive qualities to the other even if they are not there. Falling in love here has come to be equated with admiration. Having this kind and line of thinking, women tend to fall in love faster than men. Would these disgrace women of being as such? Absolutely not, in fact these would simply mean that women are much more matured on looking at things especially with the matters of the heart.

Many of the women of today still have the tendency to equate love with romance. The words falling in love rings a sweet melody to the ears, brings to the imagination of the image of two lovers whispering sweet nothings to each other in the park or on the telephone, unmindful of the rest of the world as if only they matter and exist at all. I don’t know where I get this though I am sure it’s from a book that the author there also points out what makes women falls in love faster is the importance on being loved rather than on loving itself. Another thing is the emphasis on the object loved rather than on the faculty of loving. And lastly, the confusion between the initial state of falling in love and the permanent standing in love. This makes the difference because mostly men look at it differently than women when it comes to issues like this, women are more emotionally inclined than men. 

Love Is The Purest Emotion In the Soul Of Universe.

Love is the purest feeling, that we will ever witness . It is the fuel that moves the subconscious and  conscious forces. Pure love maybe even helps the hyperconscies to accelerate. For the love of beings there have been created immortal works of literature, art and construction. Love created heroic  acts in work, creation and battles.Love lifted sick people of their death bed, rose personalities that seemed lost forever. Pure love knows no old age, it starts when you’re young  and ends with the last breath.                                                                                                                                                                                                                Love is capable of miraculous transformations in human personality,only if it is true and clean. Afterwards, when love sits down and stabilizes, it acts constantly like a well maintained fire, all springing puritetea viata. From what does the purity of love springs ? The purity of love springs from the soul of pure human feelings such as:

A.      >The sense of completion in terms of affection , a union of souls , in order to form  the entire upper vital - a man and a woman. This feeling of pure soul attraction, is very powerful, is completed  in subsidiary with sexual attraction, but the soul remains dominant. Sex subsides after a few minutes, but love does not run out ,as an eternal fire.

B.      >Purity of love springs from a sense of emotional security, a feeling which is  stronger than many others. In this uncertain world that we live in,  every person’s soul  craves for security and supreme safety.

C.      >Purity of love comes from multiplying psychophysical forces. They are multiplied by: autosuggestion and positive suggestions that we make, unconsciously. 

                                               Pure love should not be confused with passion, no matter how burning it seems.
Love is an essential condition to achieve success in all fields as :scientific, professional, economic, political, social, sports, etc..True love passes easily over trouble, material  shortages ,  disease and other tests.

Tips for Earning the Love of a Woman

 
Earning the love a woman is something much simpler than one might think. People all over the world are trying to make the whole thing incredibly complicated. The problem is that most men don’t know what to look for in a woman and that is why they end up in wrong relationships. Here are a couple of tips that will help you earn the love of your lady:
1. Make sure you are compatible.
This is by far the hardest thing of all: meeting the right woman. Most people don’t realize how important temperamental and personality compatibility is. Nature intended to make some people get along naturally and others to repel themselves naturally as well. So before a woman feels that she loves you, she has to feel that you are compatible with her, that you need what she is offering and that she needs what you are offering. Of course all this is happening mostly on an unconscious level. If your relationship is not going smooth, for the most part, from the beginning, it was never meant to be.
2. Be honest and open.
There is no love without honesty and openness. This is a vague concept for most people because it seems very hard. It is very hard if you have associated love with being dishonest and telling people what they want to hear all the time. Sometimes loves means telling a painful truth and that is important. Suffering brings us closer and a loving relationship is filled with painful truths. In a loving relationship, where a woman absolutely loves you and adores you, there has to be a sense of genuine connection. She needs to feel you when you are on the verge of success but equally in the same time when you are down in pain and despair. She needs to FEEL you completely to love you.

Signs That Show That Your Girlfriend Is In Love with You

Does she love you? How do you know for sure? Is there a way to know for sure? Of course it is and it’s not that complicated. Signs are there, you just have to see them. Misery, frustration, anger and all the other negative emotions are all different in their own way but happiness, joy and love are all the same. All women that truly love their men are the same. Here are a couple of “signs” to let you know if your girlfriend is in love with you. I call them “signs” because they aren’t something that is visual, they are more than that - it’s something that comes from within her, from her heart.
1. She is joyful and genuinely happy.
There is a great saying that goes like this: “The most important sign of a healthy relationship is the laughter of the woman”. If a woman is in love with you, she is smiling and laughing most of the time, she is happy and her joy is like a beam of light noticeable by all people around her. Why is she happy? Because she finally met someone to dedicate herself to. This is what most women want and when they finally meet that man, they can never be happier. They have been waiting for this all their lives.
2. All she wants is to make you happy.
A woman that is in love with you she lets you see her vulnerable heart by offering her service to you. She wants to serve you and she wants to do EVERYTHING to make you happy. It doesn’t matter if she hated something before, but now it’s worth to do anything for the man that she loves. She becomes a warrior of love for you doing everything and anything, because from the bottom of her heart she knows that Love means Service and giving her gifts to the one she loves.

Want to avoid a Break Up : Read this

A love break up is very painful and if have faced such a break up, you know how it feels like. After a break up, if you look back, you will realize all the signs that you could not see during the relationship. If you learn from these signs and keep them in mind for the future, it may help you to avoid a break up in the future or even if a break up happens, it might help you to get back after you have split.
You come to know that a break up might happen when there is lack of physical contact. Physical contact does not necessarily mean sex. However, there are times in a relationship, when there are lots of sex and when it is less. This is natural. However, in case, if you find that your partner has lost interest in you, it is a sign of the end of a relationship.
For instance, if your partner avoids holding your hand in a public place or if he refuses to put an arm around you in a movie hall, he may be on the verge of ending the relationship. Any sudden changes are signals that can tell you the position of your relationship and whether your partner is interested in you or wants a break up.
However, it is not to be taking for granted that your partner moving away from your touch is a sign of an upcoming break up. There can be a number of reasons for your partner not wanting to be touched at the given moment. Communicate with your partner. It is by having a clear conversation can solve out many things. By conversing with him, you may come to know what actually he is going through.
It may be at the time when you touched your partner; he or she may have been engrossed in some thoughts or may have been surprised by your touch. On the other hand, it may be your touch signals sex to him, he might have not been in the mood of sex, and that he showed it to you by moving away. Therefore, you cannot say that avoiding touch is a signal of love break up.
Your partner may not be in a good mood. Each signal is not a signal of love break up. You need to assess your partner closely for a while before arriving at any decision. You need to find out if the change in your partner’s behavior was occasional, or it happened only at certain situations or it was a permanent change in his part.
If you catch your partner lying to you, it can be signs of a love break up. By trying to hide one small lie, it can grow into thousands of lies. However, you have to differentiate between harmless lies and lies that are to be use for plotting a love break up. For instance, if your partner wants to throw you a surprise party, he may lie to you. These are harmless lies. So lying does not necessarily mean that it is the signal of a love break up.

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Want to get over A breakup?? Read This...

Hello folks, So you want to get over a break up right? May be you you had a break up today, yesterday or even  before much more time, its a past now. No matter whose mistake it was, wether situations were not in your favor, or your partner ditched you, still it will remain past and you cannot change it. So once you have decided that you want to move on, but you remember that person again and again thats where you fail to get over it. Its not just with you, but it is possible to get over.

There are many ways to get over, but you must be firm that you want to move on...

-Divert your Mind, when his memories come to your mind, do anything if you don't have any work then divert your mind to some creative idea, creative ideas makes you feel good at core.
-Do whatever makes your feel good, watch cartoons, watch reality shows (not on relationships), watch baby videos or funny pet videos, anything which makes you feel good, be sure that you feel good
-Hangout with your friends, and try to make new friends, new friends change the world around you (it is a Psychology).
-If you can travel, go to some places for a change any place where there is lots of nature, i.e. greenery, mountains, etc.
-Never tell to yourself you want to forget him/her, it is the first step you will remember him/her.
-If any of your friends talk about him, change the topic. Never do conversation regarding him.
-Last--- Do not listen sad music. 


Always yours,
J'D (Jay Dave)

Learn From your Past… (ADVICE)

It's hard to accept, but you can't change the past. You can't go back and manipulate things to the way you wanted them to happen. Because life's be meaningless and boring and just not worth living. But you can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life. Yes, you will make mistakes. And yes, you will have bad days - but as long as you let the past go, you'll have such a gorgeous and bright future ahead of you. Knowing that things were meant to happen. Knowing that each day you will learn something so that you keep growing to be a better person. Life is like a rope, twined in all its complexities and yet weaved into one marvellous stream that you have the chance you use something amazing from. So grab hold of it.